Sofia Barrett-Ibarria

sex-how-to

A Beginner’s Guide to Foot Fetishes

Advice for foot fetish beginners wondering about footjobs, the best angles for showing feet, and the mysterious allure of toe jewelry.
Sofia Barrett-Ibarria
4.12.23
sex work

Couples Who Started Making Porn in the Pandemic Tell Us How It’s Going

Some of them say they're sincerely enjoying their new jobs.
Sofia Barrett-Ibarria
2.24.21
sex-how-to

How to Enjoy Masturbation More

Start by treating yourself like a stranger.
Sofia Barrett-Ibarria
1.21.21
sex-how-to

A Beginner's Guide to Mutual Masturbation

The conversations, the positions, and, possibly, the blindfolds that will help you and a partner touch yourselves, but get off together.
Sofia Barrett-Ibarria
11.16.20
sex-lifestyle

How to Turn Your Bedroom Back Into a Sex Zone if You're Working From Home

Just make sure you put everything away before your next video call with your boss.
Sofia Barrett-Ibarria
10.19.20
sex-how-to

How to Watch Porn With Your Partner for the First Time

If you're nervous about judgement or comparison, try thinking of this as a hot way of getting to know each other better.
Sofia Barrett-Ibarria
10.5.20
sex-lifestyle

OnlyFans Creators' Best Advice for Making DIY Solo Videos

Thigh-high stockings, thoughtful lighting, and sexy dress rehearsals can all work in your favor as you become an "amateur" professional.
Sofia Barrett-Ibarria
8.21.20
personal finance

Doing Sex Work Online Isn't Cheap

People who did stripping, escorting, or dominatrix work before the pandemic are finding that making money now means spending it on equipment like lighting, phones with good cameras, lingerie, and toys.
Sofia Barrett-Ibarria
5.11.20
sex work

What It’s Like to Break Up With a Sex Work Client You Fell For

"I was happy to pursue a flirty friendship with someone who I thought could be much more to me than just someone who paid for nudes."
Sofia Barrett-Ibarria
2.10.20
this is fine

Horror Movies Make Me Less Afraid of the World

When my anxieties creep in, intentionally choosing to be scared grounds me.
Sofia Barrett-Ibarria
10.29.19
sex tourism

How to Have Ethical Sex With Strangers on Vacation

People vacationing specifically to bone are younger and queerer than ever before—and they're changing what it means to ethically travel while horny.
Sofia Barrett-Ibarria
10.9.19
Celebrity

How Serial Killer Aileen Wuornos Became a Cult Hero

To her fans, Wuornos's story offers a powerful example of a survivor who defies the respectability politics of victimhood.
Sofia Barrett-Ibarria
9.19.19
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